Guest Written by Todd & Chele (@toddandchele), micro influencers who share their unique experiences as an interracial couple. Defying traditional norms, Chele is a sex and pleasure advocate, and Todd is a passionate romantic who loves exploring new dimensions of intimacy. Together, they inspire others to celebrate love, connection, and authenticity in all its forms.
Venturing into the world of Kink with Todd has been an exhilarating rollercoaster, filled with thrilling twists and intimate moments that keep our connection electrifying. Our latest adventure? The Peaches N’ Crea’Me Kink Collection—a stunning array of BDSM Toys that are great for introducing Kink into playtime. The moment I laid eyes on that classy, peachy color, I knew we were in for something special. No more standard black leather or strappy gear; this collection brings a fresh, cute and inviting vibe that screams “let’s explore!”
Exploring BDSM Collars with a Partner
When I first tried on the Fur Collar & Leash, I was struck by how different it felt to wear; something so soft and chic. Usually, collars can feel heavy or extreme, but this one had a light, playful quality. Wearing it allowed me to tap into my submissive side without feeling overwhelmed. The furriness of the collar made it unbelievably comfortable to wear. Rather than being afraid to lose control, I was excited to open doors to conversations and connections we hadn’t fully explored before.
Peaches N’ Cre’me Collar Set, $29.00
Todd and I have talked about our desires frequently and often, which made this moment feel even more special and intimate. The moment Todd attached the lead, I felt an exciting jolt of vulnerability. Even his eyes lit up with a new sense of excitement. He was able to let out a different side of his sexuality; it was like flipping a switch. Suddenly, I was his to guide as he pleased, and the thrill of that connection sent shivers down my spine. Being that I am naturally a sexually dominant female, it can be difficult at times to be in a position where I am restrained. However, our open discussions about kink helped create a safe space for me to embrace this new dynamic, boosting the trust between us and adding to the playful energy of our experience.
Todd & Chele model the Peaches N’ Cre’me Collar Set
Todd & Chele model the Peaches N’ Cre’me Collar Set
Exploring Impact Play with a Partner
Entering the world of Kink means you will constantly be learning something new about yourself and your partner. Chele and I have learned a lot about the things we’re into and even about the things we’re not. It was by happenstance that we learned Chele really enjoys Impact Play. Once this happened, it opened a floodgate of enthusiastic conversations which presented a little bit of a fun and healthy tug-of-war in the bedroom. So when we received the Peach Impression Paddle, we excitedly welcomed it to our collection. The sound it makes when it connects with Chele’s juicy peach is deliciously loud; this created an atmosphere of intensity that had Chele craving more with every smack.
Peaches N’ Cre’me Impression Paddle, $16.50
The Peach Impression Paddle is light enough to leave the intensity of the impact up to the user’s discretion, and what she loved most was how it delivered the perfect balance of pleasure and impact. Each strike sent waves of excitement coursing through her, and she found herself moaning from the constant teasing and pleasing this paddle brought. There was a level of confidence that I felt by just being able to explore such a new territory with my partner. Through open communication about our boundaries and limits, we have learned body language, what each moan means, and even the looks on her face when she wants to push the line or to back off. It’s important to know exactly where to smack and what’s off-limits with your partner. Because of the trust that’s been built, Chele can fully let go and enjoy the sting and slaps of the paddle, knowing I’m there purely to bring her pleasure.
The Peaches N’ Cre’me Collection
Exploring Restraint Play with a Partner
The thrill of being at his mercy while knowing I could still communicate my limits made it all the more exciting. Every moment felt like a sexy dance of trust with plenty of play. So when Todd fastened the Peaches ‘n Crea’Me Fur Handcuffs around my wrists, it felt like an invitation to surrender completely. Just the thought of being restrained is enough to send my heart racing, but being in a safe space with Todd turned my anxiety into excitement. When playing with Restraints, Todd knows to check in and stay in the moment with me. I have set boundaries that ensure there are no distractions; because for me, being restrained makes every touch feel amplified.
Peaches N’ Cre’me Fur Handcuffs, $22.00
What we appreciate most about the Peaches N’ Crea’Me Kink Collection is how it allows us to explore our desires in a fun, non-intimidating way. The peachy color is a refreshing departure from the traditional goth-like darkness associated with Kink, making it feel approachable and stylish. Kink can sometimes feel daunting, especially for those just starting out.
Todd & Chele Model the Peaches N’ Cre’me Handcuffs
Todd & Chele Model the Peaches N’ Cre’me Handcuffs
We’ve been to a few Kink-Focused events together and have seen what’s out there, but with this collection we’ve found it to be a way to ease into the experience without feeling overwhelmed. It’s all about creating an atmosphere of trust and openness with one another, where we can explore our fantasies and push our boundaries together. Creating a safe space where each individual can share their fantasies safely and respectfully is essential. I can confidently say that with Todd by my side, I feel empowered to embrace every moment.
Exploring Kink as a Couple
One of the best parts of our journey has been the way we communicate, not just about sex. It’s great that we don’t just jump into play; we take our time to chat about what excites us, what scares us, and where we want to go next. Chele and I have learned that the key to successful Kink is finding that sweet spot between exploration and comfort. Each session is a new opportunity to experiment and discover new layers of our desires. This journey grants us the freedom to find ‘the line,’ allowing it to evolve responsibly over time as we enjoy the experience together.
You don’t need to dive headfirst into the deep end if you’re considering adding a little Kink to your life. Ease in with playful conversations and small experiments—like trying on the Collar or giving the Paddle a gentle swat. It’s all about creating an inviting space where both partners can feel safe and excited.
